September holds a special place in the heart of Vijay Kumari, a 77-year-old resident of Lucknow, as it marks the period when her husband, Major Dhirendra Singh, was honored with the Vir Chakra for his valor during the 1965 India-Pakistan war. Despite sustaining severe injuries in the conflict, his display of bravery and courage continues to be a source of immense pride for his wife. At the young age of 25, Major Dhirendra Singh served on the Kashmir front in 1965. A landmine explosion resulted in a critical injury to his leg, necessitating its amputation.
Undeterred, Major Dhirendra Singh demonstrated remarkable resilience, successfully neutralizing the enemy’s artillery. This act of heroism earned him the Vir Chakra, the third-highest gallantry award in India. Vijay Kumari recounts that communication methods were limited at the time, and she received news of her husband’s injury through a letter. On September 23, 1965, while she was at her parents’ home in Gorakhpur, a letter from the Commanding Officer of the 3rd Battalion (Rifles) of the Kumaon Regiment arrived at her in-laws’ residence, providing details about the incident.
Major Dhirendra Singh’s life underwent a significant transformation following the war. In 1966, he was fitted with an artificial leg and reassigned to Lucknow. Although he was declared medically unfit in 1971 and had to retire from the army, he never lost heart and consistently encouraged his children. His aspiration was for his son to join the military, and his joy knew no bounds when his son participated in the passing out parade.
Vijay Kumari emphasizes her husband’s mental fortitude. Despite his artificial leg, he was able to operate a scooter, car, and even a tractor. He firmly believed in overcoming challenges. The passing of Major Singh in Delhi in April 2025 was a deeply emotional experience for Vijay Kumari, yet his courage and bravery will forever serve as an inspiration to his family.